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What is the Inner Family?
One is a compilation of all ages that one has lived including the events that one experienced during those time periods; starting at one's conception within the womb until birth and then each year afterwards. One has both male and female aspects of self and so for each year of one's life, one will have little boys and girls as well as teenagers, adults, parents, grandparents and beloveds creating the makeup of one's inner landscape. One can envision the right side of the body representing the male and the left side of the body representing the female.
Every experience ever lived in this lifetime is recorded within the biology including memories of joy, solace and comforting moments as well as those experiences that were painful, traumatic, abusive and unloving. During painful moment in one's life, a shattering occurs and one becomes fractured and looses parts of self into the unconscious creating a loss of memory of certain time periods for those pieces of self are missing. In their place, one creates personality and identity personas that keep oneself functioning in the world. The memory of the traumas replays continuously in one's life acting out as repetitive emotional struggles, fear, bouts of anger, sadness, emptiness, powerlessness and many other expressions based upon what was experienced long ago.
In healing the inner family, one collects up parts of self that were fractured, removes the personality and identity persona and drains off the trauma, patterning and thought forms that became locked so rigidly in their place. One will also need to understand the karmic dance that occurred between oneself and another so that forgiveness may be born allowing a healing to take place deep within oneself. In the retrieval, healing and integrating of loss parts of self, one begins to open their heart and love them self again and begin to mold their life into expressions that are founded upon one's authentic self and truth.
I have written a few articles on my own personal journey with healing the inner family.
Healing the Inner Family with the Love of the Tao
Healing the Inner Family Through Play
Healing the Inner Family Through Play (part two)
Blessings for Self Honor and Self Love.
See Articles for additional sharings.
Working with the Inner Family and Healing Relationships
I am excited to offer readings specially geared toward working with the inner family. These readings are designed to assist in exploring one's inner family or to take one’s relationship with their inner family to another level. Within oneself, there are many layers of healing taking place and each reading will focus on a particular area of healing which will build upon the last. One will work at a pace that is comfortable for oneself and one’s inner family to allow for growth, healing, love and nurturing to be experienced by all. There will be many blessings offered by the Earth Mother, nature, ancestors and the Heart of the Tao allowing love to flow to all parts of self in need of healing and transcendence.
I. Assessing One’s Inner Family
In this reading or series of readings, one will explore the current state of one’s inner family, including all ages and both the male and female aspects. One may discover that some inner family members are not present for they may be traded, swapped or intertwined with another. Sometimes when one retrieves parts of self, they may continue to go missing or parts of their energy systems may go missing due to hidden thought forms, patterns, contracts, agreements and karma with another. This then allows a pathway into one’s own field via the inner family where problematic areas in one’s field or biology continue to be jeopardized. In identifying the thought forms and patterning and understanding the ancestral karmic dance that allows parts of self to be given or taken away, one will retrieve those parts of the inner family, heal and forgive the old dance and create a more sovereign field and a whole expression of self.
One can also give special attention to the youngest parts of self whom may have lost valuable knowledge, records and information as well as their love, power and truth before birth and in the first years of life due to ancestral karmic dances with one’s parents and siblings. These are very sensitive years for one’s heart was open and one gave freely to others. In retrieving one’s own ancient information, power, love, chi and truth and understanding and forgiving the ancient ancestral dance, one can piece oneself back to the original expression of self and begin to stand from a place of empowered love and empowered truth.
II. Establishing a Relationship with Your Inner Family
In this reading or series of readings, one will create a dialogue with one’s inner family at all ages, both male and female aspects including infants, toddlers, grade school years, teenagers, adults/parents/grandparents as well as the inner beloveds. Each age group has something valuable to contribute to one’s ascension whether it is ideas for creative projects or a new occupation, assisting in dreamweaving, or to offer support and bring more joyful experiences into one’s life. Techniques and tools will be offered to assist one in collaborating with all parts of self to create an “ohana” or family relationship within where everyone contributes to the whole.
Relationships between the various ages can also be explored to assist in overcoming any inner conflicts so collaboration and unity-based relations can be born within. One’s inner family landscape can often be a direct mirror of one’s childhood and upbringing. One may find emotional rifts and power struggles between one’s inner children, teenagers and inner parents/adults that mirror experiences from one’s own childhood dance; or one may find conflicts between one’s own inner children that mirrors one’s own sibling dance. There may also be abandonment issues that need to be expressed by one’s inner family where they felt unheard, unloved and uncared for. As the ascending adult, you can work with the various age groups to release and erase any painful, emotional, disunity patterning and thought forms and bring forth a healed aspect of self from a parallel life; allowing unity based relations to be established amongst all members, driving one’s ascension towards a more peaceful and joyful state within.
III. Healing Family Relationships
This reading or series of readings offers guidance and support to understand karmic dances occurring in one’s life; whether it is with parents, siblings, partners, spouse, co-workers, friends or groups of people. For many, it is personality and identity persona associated with one’s inner family that interacts and reacts to the various cast of characters in one’s life which can lead to conflict and turmoil. A comment made, a look or gesture from another may remind oneself of a similar dance that occurred in childhood. This triggers one’s inner family to react to the comment or gesture from a place of hurt, indignation, judgment or resentment similar to when they were hurt long ago. In understanding and forgiving the karmic triggers, one can retrieve the fractured parts of self and alter the associated polarity thought forms and patterning. As this is done, one will be able to step out of the dance and create more peaceful, unity based relations through the mastery of the unity based Language of Light and Language of One thought forms.
One can also explore any hidden patterns or karmic dances that still may be acting out with others in present time. At a young age, children create agreements with parents, siblings and their associated personality in order to protect themselves, receive some form of conditional love, care-take another or to keep the family stable, safe and running smoothly. Many of these agreements go unnoticed; however they keep one locked into a certain role or dance within the family dynamics. These patterns continue to play out with the same family members or may even be transferred to another of close relations where the same patterning acts out. In uncovering, understanding, forgiving and releasing these hidden agreements, associated patterns and the ancestral karma, one can free oneself; moving beyond the roll played as a child an into a more sovereign, empowering dance of freedom, joy, love, honor and truth in one’s dance of life.
If you are interested in working together, please feel free to contact me peacefulrelations@ascendingtruth.org or see Consultations for more information.
I look forward to hearing from you and many blessings for your continued journey!
Namaste,
Rhonda
